LONG DISTANCE
Is the love too strong for you to give me a chance... where is the love in the distance,he makes you feel locked up in your own world for instance,he is too far memories of him appear like a flash in the dark.He makes you promises but gives you lies.You keep on pushing me away.WHY? You say you are waiting for him maybe its a love that will never be.How many times has he been there for you? You are the song playing in my heart every time i try to reach for you,you seem so near yet so far are a dream am meant to give away or am i too invisible. I try not to say i love you a word that might scare you away.i wanna see you more and more but you close your door why don't you try to open your heart even if for a while.maybe its wrong to say please love me cause i know you'll never do cause somebody else is waiting there inside for you. i hope pray and wait for a tomorrow you and me together.
Author.
Chereste wahome

Your EGO is not your AMIGO

 YOUR EGO IS NOT YOUR AMIGO

The ego is not who you really are, the ego is your self-image .it’s your social mask .it’s the role you’re playing. Your social mask that thrives on approval . It wants control and it is sustained by power, because it lives on fear.

Ego is just like a dust in the eye without cleaning the dust in the eye you can’t see anything clearly.

Don’t let this three lettered word let you not to say these three important words : I LOVE YOU,I MISS YOU , I AM SORRY………………………..

                           ’’LEAVE your EGO otherwise everyone will LEAVE YOU’’

Learning to transcend the ego is one of the most important steps on the path to self-realization while the ego exists as a self-defense mechanism in  our limited consciousness and serves a useful purpose to a certain degree, it can and does not ultimately hold us back on the spiritual path if we don’t  eventually transcend it. We must learn to operate from our true, divine nature if we are to gain the mastery we seek in this lifetime.  The voice of spirit is always available to guide and provide for us, but in many it is like a small whisper, whereas the ego is a deafening roar.  In cultivating stillness and working through our limiting beliefs and perceptions we can begin to cultivate a relationship with our higher selves and hence, begin to transcend the ego.  This involves the letting go of many belief structures and becoming quite ‘vulnerable’ in a certain sense.  However, the irony of the situation is that this ‘vulnerability’ is only an illusion, because it is in the state where one is cut off from their higher self that they are truly vulnerable.  The nature of the vulnerability of one who is in the process of transcending the ego is more of an uncertainty as they learn to trust that they will be supported when their faith is placed fully in the hands of the divine acting through their higher selves.

When your identity and consciousness are based in your ego rather than in your Divine Self, you have no true center to help you stay balanced and peaceful in an ever-changing world. You are like a small ship flung about on the waves of the ocean of life.

When your consciousness and identity are based in your Divine Self, you are no longer the small ship, but the ocean itself. You can stay centered in the light and love that you are, no matter what kind of energy you are around. You are no longer a separate self, alone, confused, hurt, or helpless. Instead, you are your Divine Self–a Self that is the essence of spiritual power, wisdom, vision, truth, Will and love.

It is through consciously contacting and opening to your greater Self that the ego is transcended. As you transcend your ego you begin to recognize that every thing in your life can be a blessing. You relate to your beliefs, thoughts, emotions, desires, and stories in new ways so that you experience less suffering. You realize you no longer need to experience hurt, fear, loss, helplessness, or anxiety. Your ego can no longer hold you back, sabotage your goals, or create lack and limitation. You are helping to create an important shift for humanity. As you do, the energy that comes back makes it possible for you to more fully embrace and embody the consciousness of your Divine Self.

As take my leap from my thoughts take yours from YOUR ego embrace real self “Be the change you want to see’’ remember a ad day for the geo is a good day for thE

…………………………..SET the  TREND see the CHANGE

spice it or loose it

SPICE IT OR LOOSE IT.

Timely Advice To The Women…………

The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise .the home is not a law court.

The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home-placing embargo ,going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers – lacks wisdom

The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of ‘’women’s right “ to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself .

A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, soon you will be he boss of an empty home.

A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without protest.

Modern day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon  you will be the boss of an empty home.

A wife that does not pull herself away from friends’ influence and advice or even from the control of her mother  and father will have herself to blame.

When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife .but soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man’s aunt, even though she is 7-10 years younger. Her defense is that  if he truly  loves her ,he should love her the way  she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today you go to bed smelling onions and garlic. You go to bed wearing grandmothers’ clothes.

Why you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks.-‘YES WE KNOW.’ But you tell me?

African PRINTS IN FASHION

The African culture is now being embraced all over the world through different fashion aspects and designs that most people have incorporated from the different cultural ornaments ,fabric ,designs that we as Africans have.
this has helped the African culture in clothing to dominate the fashion industry in this 21st century.

                                          African prints incorporated in the rafia bags.

                                          The A-line dress my way of saying am proudly AFRICAN.

                                          necklaces more of the ThetrendSetter.

the monochrome man & A-line lady

    The monochrome man & the A –line lady.

In the 21^st century and in the ‘Y’ generation that we live in today where questions are asked people are always on the watch I can’t step out looking shabbily dressed because I know what I dress and how I present myself to the world tells a lot about me, its not only about the clothes that I wear but also my attitude, character and perception of the world around me .

I am not saying ,I am fashionable ,but there are sociological interests that matter to me things that are intellectual, things that are concerned with vanity and beauty ,things that we all think about ,things that I try to mix up and translate to my fashion trend .

My look today I call it the my monochrome man look it can be worn for an official or casual situations it’s a top notch Idea I got from the Nigerian African wear. I accessorized it with a black casual watch and official black brog shoes     .

The lady has on an A-line dressed laced with beads around the neck area so there isn’t much need for accessorizing, the red and black heels suit the dress completely this look is comfortably good for a casual situation.

Always remember everyone has his/her own style because fashion is what we are offered style is what we do with the fashion so stay trendy “adios”.